Saturday, December 11, 2021

Happy To You


Happy To You 


 If someone says Happy Holidays to you - Thank them.   Wish them the same

If someone says Merry Christmas to you - Thank them. Wish them the same

If someone wishes you Happy Chanukah, Kwanza, Diwali, Yule tide - whatever/whichever glad tiding they offer you - say Thank you.  People are wishing you Happy Holidays or Merry Christmas for the joy of sharing their hope of a peace filled season of light with you.  

You are free to wish others the greeting of your choosing, there is no ban on saying  Merry Christmas. Someone  saying Happy Holidays is not an attack on Christmas,  long before television and nightly news programs people were saying Happy Holidays as a greeting. 

Not all people are Christian; not even those that celebrate with a Christmas Tree and Santa. Not every person living in the U.S.A. is a descendent of those that populated Plymouth Plantation and there are cultural festivals leading up to Christmas for many non Anglo-Saxon cultures. 

This should be a joy filled time of year for reflection and well wishes. Offer your wish with joy and love and accept the Happy Holiday or the Merry Christmas or the Happy New Year  with joy and gratitude. 

 

Friday, December 10, 2021

 Every day I hear from you it makes my heart happy

Sunday, October 24, 2021

color













 

Wonderful thing

 If you have not lived it

 you cannot understand it

 and that is a wonderful thing


 as much as you want to understand

 and support and console 


I would not wish this pain

 on any human being 

ever. 


That you cannot understand

the depth

the width

the height 

of this pain


That is a wonderful wonderful thing


Saturday, October 23, 2021

pain

 with every part of me

I hope

you are

clueless

to the pain

the ice cold boiling

pain

that is

waiting

and that you

are oblivious to what

your

silence

feels 

like


Monday, September 27, 2021

Just hiding

 I can not live 

in the land of maybe

in the land of what if

in the land of if only


I must find my way through

the land of maybe

the land of what if

the land of if only


if I want to live 

Friday, August 13, 2021

 



You do not 

ever

have to forgive me

because

I am never 

forgiving

myself 

Deeply

 


Ours

 is

                    a

                    Deeply

                    troubled

                    Household

                    where

                    Depression

                    and 

                    Inertia

                    meet

                    and

                    Mutate

                    into

                    Nothing


 

Thursday, June 3, 2021

Will

 



The day goes where it wants

and  some days I

follow


The day goes where it wants

and some days I 

beg

cry

plead


The day goes where it will



Monday, April 26, 2021

21

 21 days

22 days

23

0

reset

29 

and counting 

with observances

in between




Friday, April 23, 2021

daily cry



 I get you're busy


I get you're probably confused

                                        angry

                                        scared

                                        doubtful

                                        insecure

                                        scared

                                        overwhelmed

                                        sad


It is about you and it is not about me. 


it hurts



    

 

Sunday, April 4, 2021

Voice

 Still afraid of the sound of my own voice 

Stuff

 Sometimes

I am sad

I think of all the things I didn't do

all the missed opportunities but

most of the time

I am glad

and amazed by my life 

and that I am alive

and where I am 

sitting on the sofa holding up an old cat

is where I am supposed to be 


**********************


I used to like the wind

and storms

but 

that was before

now

I know what pain is

I know what loss is


*******************


trying 

to be in the moment

trying

not to think of the moments I have not be in 


Friday, March 5, 2021

Dear Brighid. Dear Josh.



 I do want you to know something

I have thought about you
worried about you
and hoped for you
from the first day of your existence. 

Every day 
that I am alive
you will be thought of
and worried about
and hoped for

and after that ..... 
if there is an after that
you will be thought of
and worried about
and hoped for

I have always loved you
I will always love you

NOTHING changes that

if I hear from you. If I do not hear from you

If our politics differ.

if you have an addiction of any kind

If you win the gold medal

If you can't get out of bed 

If you are living in a mansion or living on the streets

Nothing changes that I have always loved you, I will always love you.

This parent's love is unconditional.

 

Tuesday, March 2, 2021

Monday, February 22, 2021

You

I love You

Please

Thank you

I am listening


            take out the trash

            put away the dishes

            bring in the mail

            do the laundry


I love You

Please 

Thank You

I am listening


            go for a walk

            smile

            scrape the ice

            put gas in the car


I love you

Please

Thank you

I am listening



Listen



Saturday, February 20, 2021

All

 all the sadness

all the worry

all the grief

not knowing

all the pain

all the fear

all the tears

not knowing

        the shattered pieces

        the broken soul

        the loss of life

        the gaping hole

all the love



Friday, February 12, 2021

equilibrium

 How deep is grief

How targeted is fear

how unbalanced can one life be 

Friday, January 8, 2021

January 6 2021 -

 Wednesday January 6 armed insurgents stormed the Capital with both houses in session.

Many of us watched or listened , horrified, as our Capital was overrun. We watched and waited , horrified, as our elected representatives had to hide from these armed insurgents. We watched and waited , horrified, for the outcome of whether or not our government would be toppled, TOPPLED, by a mob. We watched and waited and prayed worrying for the safety of all.
As an adult I recognize that some people will agree with me on some things and others will not. As an adult I recognize that because someone disagrees with me they are not automatically evil or an idiot. As an adult I recognize that most of us have blind spots, myself included. As an adult I recognize that there is evil in the world and there are people who will manipulate people for their own gain and I one hundred percent believe this of our current president.
As an adult who has voted for years, I trust our electoral process. Each state sets its own parameters of how the process works within their own state. Year in and year out people vote. Why is this year any different? Why do some think fraud occurred on a massive scale this year as opposed to last year or four years ago or eight years ago - IT DID NOT.
The president has, for years, been seeding the idea of fraudulent votes/voters. It is no more true today then it was four years, or ten or fifteen years ago. (yes, I know there has always been some & will always be some). More Americans voted for Biden and he won. There is legal recourse when there is a disagreement. Those processes were used and the result was, more Americans voted for Biden and he won.
What I am having the most difficult time with is those who, rather then condemn an armed mob storming their Capital, post memes on the riots following the murder of George Floyd; or the riots that broke out after BLM protests. This is NOT the same. Using riots to ... defend? treason is a false equivalent. What I am having a very difficult time with is - why? Why would anyone defend the armed overthrow of our government, and that is what is being done when this insurgency is compared to a riot.
Murder, looting, rioting - these are bad; they are always bad.
Those rioters were not armed insurgents determined to overthrow a government .
As the purpose of the terrorists who stormed the Capital was to stop our government from functioning and to overturn a lawful election, this wasn't civil disobedience but an act of treason.
There is a difference between rioting and treason; rioting and sedition.
We should all be horrified and saddened by the act of terrorism that occurred Wednesday. Your support of trumps policies does not preclude you from damning the violent attack on our government yesterday. Every American citizen should be outraged.
( False equivalence is a logical fallacy that occurs when someone incorrectly asserts that two or more things are equivalent, simply because they share some characteristics, despite the fact that there are also notable differences between them. For example, a false equivalence is saying that cats and mice are the same animal, since they’re both mammals and have a tail. )